Re: A newbie (frustrated and fed up!)
Posted by Julian on 24/2/2012, 2:55 pm, in reply to "A newbie (frustrated and fed up!)"
Hi I'm 53 and have had the problem since I was 12 but maybe earlier. I dont have any problem with nudity/communal showers etc generally i couldnt care less about what anyone thinks about me except being judged on how quickly I can pee and the fear of someone thinking I'm just standing there doing nothing...I'd say you have come to the right place and taking action now is a good thing. Try peeing in urinals when no one is around and then perhaps a few urinals away from someone, Think its all about practice and realising that noone else really cares about what you are doing, it should help you relax. Easier said than done I know but dont go through life missing out on social events etc because of this problem.
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