Posted by Andrew on 25/1/2010, 9:15 am, in reply to "Just another story"

Hi Ronnie Good to hear fropm you; delighted you have found this site and have found it helpful. BTW no need to apologise "sorry for going on so long, hope it doesn't sond self-pitying or boring"; you didn't and it doesn't! So many guys do this, it must be our personality. That is what this site is here for: to get it all out in the open to an understanding set or readers. Go on, post some more :-) Your story is all too familiar, and from my personal experience as well. That TV program: I think I saw it as well; an Alan Bennet sketch of him going to a two man set up, to be followed in by an old bloke who finishes before he does, turns to leave and says something like "people like you should be shot" i.e. implying that AB had ulterior motives for being there. Hey ho. Then I saw a western where a guy hancuffed to a guard said something like "I cant go when you are watching me" in order to distract his guard and effect an escape. Thing is things got better for me; I just go where I am comfortable and no longer obsess about it. The workshops will help you to get there; given the impact on one's life, you just have to treat it as first priority. Like a treatment for say cancer; no-one would put that off.

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