Posted by Pete on 7/2/2010, 10:24 pm, in reply to "Re: Just another story"

Ronnie, I am one of those who are decades older than you, whom Geoff mentions I was 84 ( ! ) when I discovered that I was not the sole "freak" that I had always imagined. Most of what you wrote in your initial message could have been written by me, so imagine my relief at discovering this site. I have since been on two Workshops and sincerely recommend that you do the same. You are by no means too old and will never regret it. The psychological impact alone of meeting other quite normal and very nice guys who are trying to deal with "our" condition is enough to make it worthwhile. I am not completely "cured", if that is ever possible, but my life, old as I am, has been turned around. In the meantime get a copy of Stephen Soiffer's book "Shy Bladder Syndrome" and start using some of the self-help techniques which he explains and which will be dealt with again at the Workshops. It's one of the most helpful and encouraging books I have ever read. Best of luck and keep us posted. Pete.

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