Posted by Adam on 10/8/2008, 2:26 pm

For years now i have had a problem using urinals but never really thought it was that much of a problem, then progressively my problem has been getting worse, like i started to struggle when going to a football match whilst using the cubicals, but still that wasnt that much of an issue, i would just hold it in until i got home. Then when i was on a night out i would find it easier to leave the pub/club and go for a wee round the corner or in a bush, now this is where the problem started gettting really bad as this was not a normal thing to do. Since then i now find it almost impossible to go anywhere where there are other people around, like at my mums house sometimes at work and i recently have got a new girlfriend, can i go at her flat or at mine when she is there...NO!! The final straw has been the holiday that i just came back from where i couldnt go at the airport, on the plane or really anywhere, one day i went 17 hours without going and i was bursting but still couldnt go. I have been to a urologist who has told me there is no blockages but my bladder is twice the size of a normal persons which is probably from holding it in for so long. I am having CBT at the moment which i dont feel like it is working at all. I have tried acupuncture, aromatherapy, hypnotherapy, chinese medicine and was on anti depressants but the urologist told me to stop those. This problem is really getting me down now as i now feel as i cant really do anything or go anywhere it has really taken over my life. Has anyone got any suggestions on how to get over this, what are the workshops like ect ect Thanks in advance...

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