Recent experiences

Hi everyone.
Went to a gig in a city with a mate 2 months ago. Mate wanted to go to pubs from the afternoon onwards.
I had no alcohol until I had 2 pints just before gig.
I drank cola & decided whilst I was in the city to use it as a good opportunity to get some a.p practice in.
I had several successes in each pub I used the gents & one success at the venue before the gig & whilst the gents were very quiet.
I saved a bit so I could try one final time to drain off.
Most of the long line of urinals were occupied & this guy walking in ahead of me stood in the middle urinal of three vacant one’s.
I was about to stand next to him, trying to decide which urinal to pick when I wasn’t sure if my level of urgency was quite high enough & unfortunately I bottled out & went in the cubicle where I went immediately so my level of urgency must have been good.
A bit disappointed I’d bottled out but positively remembered the successes I’d had all afternoon.
I also knew I should have just tried the urinal & waited it out if necessary or faked it if need be.
Never mind!
On to two months later now In September.
Another gig, same venue, pubs again & more afternoon practice.
All went perfect again.
This time when I went to the gents at the venue I stood between others when it was very busy and I noticed the shape of the urinal which I hadn’t registered before.
Not only did they have dividers but if you took a capital D letter & turn it on it’s side but make an entrance in middle of the curve, then you’ll get an idea of the urinals unique shape.
Don’t recall seeing one’s like this before.
To continue. I noticed the urinals came out a fair way from the wall & that you could stand forward with your penis inside without touching the urinal & that the porcelain sides acted like privacy walls too so you were very well covered, They were great!
I urinated immediately & had no worry about privacy at all.
You couldn’t help but see the shadow out of the corner of your eye of the guy next to you shaking his penis before he left but you couldn’t actually see it which meant that he nor the guy on the left would see mine. Maybe that guy was standing near the edge of the urinal & not in because he doesn’t think anything of using urinals like us a.p sufferers do?
These urinals are so good that I would feel more confident using them anytime now & it’s a shame they aren’t in every public toilet.

#2920 by Karl
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