Posted by James on 25/8/2012, 3:03 pm, in reply to "Re: Just cant go"

Hi Bill, Reading your account reminded me of my social drinking habits 30 years ago. It really is a nightmare trying to monitor your fluid intake/output when you suffer from this. Fortunately I was not bullied at school, but was a topic of conversation for having a large penis. It is an invasion of someones privacy, and can have a terrible effect if you are struggling to pee anyway. It leaves you feeling like you are peeing in front of an audience every time you go in the loo. I was also the subject of jokes and banter in the work place, which left me holding my urine all day until I got home. Thank fully these days things have changed and in my office block the majority of men pee in a cubicle. There is no stigma in enjoying some privacy. I managed to 'cure' myself by relaxing. Easier said than done, and it did take years with a plenty of setbacks along the way. Today I can stand and chat at a urinal in a fashion I thought impossible back in the eighties. There is hope - you can get over this. I discovered this website after sorting myself out, but it would have made life a lot less lonely had I known I was not alone. Consider a workshop and/or chat to others with the same problem. One way or another it should help. James

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