Posted by alex on 5/6/2009, 7:10 am, in reply to "Frustrated"

Matt lets look at the positive you have AP and on your own, and, reading from this forum and picking up tips, you have gained a considerable degree of success with your difficulties. thats terrific!. dont forget what you have already done. I coined the phrase " hesitation is normal"...but its what you do with this thats important many guys without AP would have had the same reaction. Hesitated to deliver, zipped up and went out to meet the pals you saw this as a failure and started to beat yourself up..a typical response in paruresis put this episode behind you and get back to the things you were able to do before. you have the character to beat this before so keep on trying alex

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