Posted by Stefan on 3/6/2009, 11:30 am

Hi, im a 29 year old male from malta and i've allways had difficulties going in urinals since my secondary school days. this never really bothered me that much but in these past 4 years this problem started to control my life, and the worst thing is that when i've been, just after an hour i start 2 feel that pressure coming that i need to go again. i think its the thinking about it that makes me want to go so frequently and i try not to , but knowing about your problem of not being able to go in front of others prevents you from not thinking about it when others are around you and there is nowhere safe to go. I work as a mobile crane operator and i am sortof the centre of attraction on the job which makes the situation even worse and when i run some where to go and know that the workers are waiting for me,makes me freeze up and not be able 2 releif myself and that makes concentration on my job even harder. please help me if u have any suggestions. if there is any maltese people who has this problem, do not hesitate to contact me. We could help each other as malta is not so big and i dont know any other peson who has this problem here. Sincerly Stefan

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