Posted by Andrew on 3/2/2009, 8:54 am, in reply to "my story"

Hi Kev Another thought, about your Mum. It IS hard for other people to understand the severity of this, because to them peeing is a total non-event. However they do understnd about other fears, llike spiders, heights, nbeedles etc. Has she got one/ One guy ona workshop cgave a vey good exmaple he uses to describe it: Say you are scared of spiders (and many are uncomfortable): tell them you have to pick a large hairy long legged spider and hold it in your hand , then while doing that, say give a speech while looking cool and relaxed! Then say you have to do this six times a day, every day. That may help your Mum to get a handle in this. ?? Andrew

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