Posted by Martin M on 16/1/2009, 10:01 am

Last night in a club was very interesting. A small queue had formed in the male toilets for the cubicles. A bouncer then arrived, I watched him as he climbed up all four cubicals to look over at the people in them. Now I am fully against drugs but as far as I am concerned, having a man climb up a toilet whilst you're urinating is wrong. The whole point of people using cubicles is for more privacy but instead you get a man climbing up to see what you are doing. I'm sure they would not dare climb up to check what a female was doing in a cubical because they would be labeled perverts etc. Well, there is more. A second bouncer arrives and also begins checking over each cubical. He then starts laughing with the other bouncer saying things like 'Are these people for real?'. They continued to have a good laugh. My brother also has a shy bladder problem and shortly later he was picked on as he waited in front of me. The bouncer said,"Are you having a poo?" Which my brother replied 'I am actually"(he wasn't but he was taking the micky back) The bouncer then shouted saying to my brother that he better flush the chain or the bouncer will make him flush the chain. Now, what right does anyone have to ask someone if they are going for a poo? This annoyed me so much i nearly failed to go one time when i used the toilet. There are so many peopel using the cuibcals and they have every right to. I would happily use the urinals if i could, but for medical reasons(Shy bladder) i cannot. simple as. I am thinking of emailing the club to highlight parueresis and also complain about the attitudes of the bouncers. Do you think I should? It is meant to be a student club. Everyone is friendly and usually there is no problem. Last night has knocked my progress a little. Im going back next thursday...

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