Posted by Martin M on 14/11/2008, 7:07 pm

I have not been clubbing for about a year but last night I left very happy. The club was totally packed and males had started queuing for the cubicles even though there was urinal space free. I was in the queue and despite there being cubicles, it seemed nobody was leaving the cubicles. This taught me that I am actually quick in the cubicles as people were taking a lot longer than me, which surprised me as i usually feel rushed. It amazed me how many people were queuing for a cubical. Someone made a joke and got everyone laughing by saying 'Im self conscious everyone!' which i felt was good because he was seeing the humor from the situation. Of course there is more to it than being self conscious but it made the whole situation relaxed and put people in good spirits. I actually felt at ease knowing that other people relied on the cubicles like myself. I think I learnt that this problem is a lot more common than i first imagined. It was great to see a calm atmosphere to what I usually find an anxious situation when i have to queue. I will look forward to going clubbing in the future with the renewed confidence that I am not alone. We will all beat this together!

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