Posted by Simon on 23/7/2007, 10:51 am, in reply to "OMG! Can not believe this happened to me!"

Hi Martin Firstly well done for going out clubbing in the first place you should feel extremely proud that you had the courage to do so plus i am very pleased that you had fun overall. Secondly don't let the bouncer who peered over the top of the cubicle at you dent your confidence as you were still able to pee ok prior to his intrusion. As for me i do exactly the same as you when i'm out clubbing if the cubicle is full I hang around until its free plus i have never had a bouncer or indeed anyone else peer over the top at me and have had to use some very ap unfriendly toilets at times and indeed have not been able to pee either but still had a good night. Whether an ap sufferer or not you have every right in the world to go out clubbing with your friends who were probably delighted that you finally joined them while the bouncer was barking up the wrong tree so don't feel bad. Please, please, please do not be put off going out clubbing! The first step is the hardest and you have already achieved that and like i say don't develope a complex about the whole thing as to me it sounds like there were far more positives to your night out than negatives! Take care Si

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