Posted by Karl on 26/9/2017, 10:29 am, in reply to "Re: Reality check "

The follow up workshops are great and i totally recommended them. Two weeks ago i was out in another town for the afternoon with two friends. I remembered that there was a lack of facilities in the town and i had a low level of urgency. As i was in another town, it was important to me to have a go at desensing and went ok at one toilet. We had a meal at Weatherspoons later on in the day but my level of urgency didn't rise enough to use the gents. We walked up the road to the supermarket to get just a few bits and on the way out i spotted toilets. As we were going to the car shortly to go home, i didn't want to get caught short on the journey back. I braced myself and went in but didn't notice that someone was right behind me until i walked through the door. I saw that there were two urinals very close together and realising my level of urgency wasn't high enough to stand next to anyone i decided to use one of the two cubicles. I then noticed that the cleaner was on his knees cleaning the toilet in one and felt uncomfortable that he would be close to the gap under the partition. Before i would of gotten out of there sharpish but i decided to challenge myself and not only did i go into the cubicle but i left the door open. I managed to urinate quite quickly and didn't get nervous when i heard him about to walk into my cubicle. I turned around and saw him just walk away as he obviously didn't hear me in the cubicle.

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