Posted by James on 20/9/2015, 1:29 pm, in reply to "My life with Paruresis."

Hi Darrell, I can relate to this. Indeed my anti-social behavior cost me a marriage some decades ago. You can get through this, and come out the other side a completely different person. Indeed it was losing my wife to be that made me determined to combat the condition. Those were pre-internet days and it was a long lonely path to tread. But you can walk that while getting out and about, hopefully ending up in a scenario whereby you pop in the gents without giving paruresis a second thought. You never completely beat it, but you can come pretty damn close. I recommend you go to a workshop, not been myself but I hear they help. Or feel free to drop me an e-mail if I can be of any help. Good luck with your journey - you are not alone! James

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