Posted by James on 5/9/2011, 3:22 pm

Hello everyone, I've been reading this board for some time (embarrassingly... years, not days, weeks or months). I keep reading everyone's testimony from workshops, and their often miraculous change in fortune. I simply find it amazing, and I worry that it could never work for me. I can never imagine myself using a urinal with random members of the public just feet away. The entire view I have of public toilets is a terrifying one, and I feel like I've been conscious of it now for so long that they're not something that enters into my thought process as a possibility... I've sort of crafted my life around my problem. Which I understand is not the right way around. Has anyone ever gone into a workshop feeling this way? Or dithered for quite some time? What was your eventual 'push' that convinced you to go... I've read of people making an international flight! J

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