Posted by Andrew on 11/2/2011, 6:46 pm, in reply to "Is this BBS and what can i do if it is as it's ruining my job prospects."

Hi Liam You ask "Is this worry about pissing myself part of BBS?" Its hard to say. BBS is easily defined: if you can OK in what you feel is a "safe" place, but get inhibited in an "unsafe" place i.e. people around, waiting for you etc, then that is BBS. The upshot of this is that you can then be bursting to go, sitting in the car, or in the pub or wherever, and be really concerned that you are going to wet yourself. But what you are suggesting is that you are worrying a lot in advance, rather than when your bladder is full; is that right? It natural to worry, but guys tend to worry about not finding somewhere safe to go, rather than wetting themselves. You ask about a cure. Please do read the stuff on the linked website, all our advice is there. And guys who have been to our workshops will advise you to attend one. cheers Andrew

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