Posted by Walt on 30/10/2009, 12:25 am, in reply to "Re: In the dark"

If I was having erectile dysfunction for example, it may be due to stress or being tired etc. But with sex I know the triggers that get me going, and I can become aroused physically as well as mentally. When peeing, there is no trigger that can get you going, physically I can think of no trigger to get me going, and no matter how hard I think of something that helped me pee the last time, it never works twice. It isn’t like you do a few stretches and warm up, or have oral with someone whom turns you on. Peeing is simply done 'cold' if you get my meaning? It's like running a marathon without any warm up or stretches. You are asking for trouble when that happens. Unless you are totally desensitized to other people and completely happy with being on show and ‘performing’ and are either unaware or just don’t care about the thought process of peeing, well then most people will have no problem If I can learn the thought process, I would probably be ok. But to be honest, I can stand there thinking sweet daisy for 24 hours; I could cover every thought in the world and still be dyeing to pee.

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