Posted by Adam on 22/6/2009, 2:49 pm

Just a quick one to update everyone on my progress... I joined up a few months ago and am trying to gradually improve my peeing in public... Truth be told I haven't had much practice recently or really done much. I have cubicles at work which aren't a challenge and the bathroom at home. BUT I did get through a stag do and a wedding recently so this was good news. The stag do was in France and after being really nervous I found that hardly any of the bars had adjacent urinals! I got myself worked up for very little reason - I'm sure you've all had that feeling when you find the loos somewhere are not half as challenging as you imagined... I had a wedding after this and things went well here. I just wanted to get through the wedding without major misfires - unfortunately the toilets were quite cramped with two undivided urinals together... hanging out here really helped my perspective on this - I figured that the background noise was fairly good and that I had a good view of the toilet door from my table so I could tell when people were going... until using the website here I'm sure that I would have just worried through the whole party spoiling the evening. Anyway I went a few times at the urinals always unaccompanied to start - just by using the timing - a couple of times people came in to join and this is obviously a bonus if you're 'in flow'. So no major leaps forward but I do feel more relaxed about having a shy bladder than a few months ago. Cheers for now

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