Posted by Mark L on 15/5/2009, 8:08 pm, in reply to "New here.. and planning to move home soon, need help!!!"

Hi mate, Any quite, private toilet can become your 'safe' toilet. It may take some getting used to but you will get there. eg. When I first met my fiancee, I simply could not use the loo at her parents house where she lived. It took a few weeks before I even attempted it. I could only manage to go if it was 3am and everyone was asleep. Over a short time, it quickly became easier and easier and turned into a 100% 'safe' toilet. Are you living alone at the moment, and will you be alone in your new home? If you answer this, it will be easier for us to help you and give you advice etc... Its naturall to avoid public toilets or challenging situations, but as you havent had this condition long it should be easier to rectify. All the best, Mark

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