Posted by Pete L on 16/4/2009, 12:09 pm, in reply to "Re: Starting a new thread"

Hi Geoff Yes my partner knows about it, I put this on my first thread (it is on Bea's thread). I told her when I first met her as I didn't feel it fair to keep this condition a secret, especially given the effect it has on ones own life, never mind a relationship. She is very supportive, and it doesn't get in the way of our relationship. Of course, I sometimes allow my mind to work overtime and start thinking that it does bother her, however, it's in my mind, not hers. Anyway, as i've recently heared someone from this site tell me 'where's the evidence'! I've not been thinking about it as much! The fact that she's an occupational and systemic therapist is a great help as she has a great understanding of sociol phobias. In addition, we have been reading Soiffers book together so she understands the impact it has on my life. All this being said, like what appears to be the norm, she too had no knowledge about this condition until she'd met me. I consider myself very fortunate to have a partner who is so supportive. It's been really good to share these passed few positive experiences I have had with her as she knows how much it means to me. I'm assuming you are staying at the hotel where the course is being held? I have decided to drive there as the journey from Norwich shouldn't be too difficult, plus the fact that I don't have to drive through the middle of London to get there! I will be leaving early though just in case the roads get busy. The hotels quite close to the tubes too I believe so, therefore, it will be easy to get to the Tate......hopefully! I have to say Geoff, I can't wait to do this. It feels more like i'm off on a little adventure...hope that doesn't sound sad! Pete

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