Posted by Mark on 26/1/2009, 8:25 am, in reply to "Re: Great advice - this REALLY works!!"

Hi Geoff, Yeah I am the same Mark who posted 'de-sensing advice please'. If you cant pee in an urinal with company, then the cubicle with the door open is what you should try. First, make sure you can go 100% of the time with the cubicle door shut and someone else at the urinals or sinks etc. Once at that stage, walk in and leave the door open. If this is too hard, then start with the door shut, when you have a low going, reach back and open the door. This should gradually get you used to being with company. To fake it, walk up to the cubical and leave the door open. Take in a 500ml bottle (one you have to squeze to drink) in with you and poor it into the bowl making as much noise as you like. No one will suspect a thing! (not that they would anyway of course!) That idea came from Colin on the workshop by the way. Its so easy to think that the other person is wondering 'why I he stood there and not peeing?'. You have to keep reminding yourself that they are there only to pee and couldnt give monkeys what anyone else is doing. Just think you will never see that person again. I agree though its much harder when you are around people you know. Keep at is and keep us updated! Mark

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