Posted by Mark on 8/12/2008, 8:21 am, in reply to "Re: De-sensing advice please"

Hi Jason, I have been visiting a public toilet on my lunch breaks as often as I can the last few weeks. 1st step was to make sure I could go straight away whilst sitting in a cubicle. The fact I was out on my own and other cubicles were availabe made this too easy. Next was to stand up, which has always been hard/impossible for me when under presure or other people are around etc. This didnt take long to accomplish either at this particlar WC. The next step I took was to try and break the barrier, and my god was it HARD! My aim was to try and go standing up in a cubicle with the door fully open. Its amazing the difference it makes, being find with the door closed and locked compared to it being open! Heres how I overcame that... Start with a locked door, and as soon as the flow starts, reach back and open the door. There I was, peeing 'in the open'. It was the first time in my life I had done anything like that. Next was to start peeing with the door being open in the first place. I have achieved this once or twice, but its not easy for me yet. Once I can do that, I will move on to the unrinals or in this case a troph. I will update accordingly. This all happened within about 2 weeks or so. It helped that I was under no time pressure and I was alone, and the WC wasnt very busy. Every time im out and about, I will go for the sake of it. The more time you can spend in a public WC (even if you dont go)the better. Jason, what approach are you trying? Would be good to hear on your progress... Mark

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