U.K. PARURESIS TRUST: Female "pee buddy"?

also...just been looking at the US AP web forum and they seem to organise "pee buddy" introductions which seems like a great idea. I would very much be interested in doing this with another female from this board. I don't have time to do a full weekend workshop as I am a single mother of two and unfortunately I get no support in this; so a weekend away is impossible for me. As well as my stated embarrassment of having to talk about this in front of guys...but I would love to meet another girl to work on this with.

I am based in London. Is there a girl out there who would be interested in partnering up and doing some de-sensitising with me?

I am sometimes able to use public toilets (but sometimes only by flushing the toilet first etc) with strangers around but bizarrely never with people I know so this is my greatest challenge.

I have a new boyfriend at the moment and I am panicking as I've already said previously I was with my last boyfriend for 7 years and was never able to go with him around. I would like to think I could get over this with my new boyfriend. What is the etiquette in relationships like this? I mean; at what point do "normal" people think it is okay to pee in front of their partner? !!