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Posted by Clive on 6/6/2013, 8:30 pm Edited by board administrator 27/11/2013, 8:32 am
cracking this is not easy, it involves a certain amount of unscrambling ... about 3 months ago i had a piss next to my brother, first one in over 50 years a few days ago i told him i had a problem, i thought it would be a big deal but it wasn't, at times everyone struggles, forgive the pun but he took the piss out of me a couple of times and that was it i don't think toilet habits are as much interest in some parts of the world as they are in western culture, it is a sad reflection but who cares toilet design is important, it is an AoDL, it is changing all the time for a number of reasons, eg shell garage toilets (mens anyway) often have birds tweeting - if you are a busy person, you probably are, then it is nice to relax for a few minutes everyone has problems, things they would like to improve, once you have accepted this problem then that is half the battle if you have not gone on one of this organisations courses i would highly recommend you do, i look forward to going on a refresher everybody needs help and most want to help
Your absolutley right. It's making a mountain out of a mole hill, but that doesn't alter the fact that when some of us have finnished with it, it's still a mountain to us. There in lies the absurdity.