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I did the workshops a few years ago and had some great success. Recently, unfortunately I have had a few more 'misses' than I would have wanted. I find if I know there is an alternative (i.e I can come back when the toilets are empty)I have no problems but in a situation where I HAVE to go (stuck on a long train journey or flight) I can 'seize up' I have never used a catheter but it seems to me if I had this 'back up' with me that would give me the alternative I need to allow me to go in the first place.
not a daft idea atall. Having a catheter (or few) in your pocket is normally enough of a reassurance to enable you to go 'naturally'. Its a 100% garunteed means of going.
I have also done 2 workshops, and I got hold of some catheters after the 1st one as I was anxious about a flight to the US and my stag party. Didnt need it on the flight and had to use one whilst clubbing for my stag, with out one I wouldnt have had a very good time!
It took me a while to obtain however, as I had to see the GP, get referred to the urology department at the hospital, then get referred to a nurse to show me how to use them. Got given enough for free, then a year later I saw the GP again to get a prescription. Took a good few months I think. You can however purchase online (not sure where is best mind)
They fold up so you can take as many as you want in your pockets, are pretty quick to use. The 1st use is nerve racking and painfull, but then you get used to the disomfort. Used one last weekend at a car track day (only 2 porter loos). First time in over a year, and no problems atall!
I have a very sympathetic GP and Urologist and it was he that suggested a cathter to me, my GP then gave me a prescription for them. I carry one in a discreet pocket and have used them a few times. It is a bit tricky at first and tend to try and hurry, thats when things can go wrong. If you are going to use one make sure that you prepare well and take your time. I have found that even the reassurance of having a catheter allows you to relax and not panic and 9 times out of 10 nature takes its course. I have suffered severe AP for a while and have a long way to go, the workshops are great and have given me back a confidence that I thought I had lost entirely. Catherters are not the cure but they are a great back up when all else fails. Cood luck Alan
