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Wembley toilets?

Posted by Ben on 16/2/2009, 9:13 pm

Hi everyone,

I will be going to Wembley soon for the Carling Cup final and I'm trying to find out how AP friendly the toilets are there both in and around the stadium?

Has anyone been? And if so are there sufficient numbers of cubicles? I'm really looking forward to my first time at the 'new' Wembley but at the same time have a certain amount of apprehension re the AP situation!

As per my previous post I am generally ok inside a toilet cubicle / stall (urinals are currently a no-no for me unless the bathroom is empty and no one else is likely to enter).

If anyone here has been to Wembley would love to hear your experiences of the toilets?

Thanks,

Ben

Re: Wembley toilets?

Posted by Adam on 17/2/2009, 9:26 am, in reply to "Wembley toilets?"

I haven't been to Wembley but know what it's like going to a footy match with AP!

On the plus side, cause they obviously need loads of urinals they usually face more than one wall... this means if you go during the game, it's very unlikely you'd have to go with someone in line of sight/next to you...

If a stranger is in there but facing another direction, you can build a bit of confidence by going while someone is in the room but not in a threatening position... if you end up with the difficulty of a friend following you, just offer to get the drinks/snacks in then pass them to him when he comes out - sorted!

hope this helps - enjoy the game!

Re: Wembley toilets?

Posted by Ben on 17/2/2009, 7:36 pm, in reply to "Re: Wembley toilets?"

Thanks for the advice Adam,

My plan is to go mid-way through each half as in my experience this is when the toilets at football are pretty empty.

At present I need a cubicle in order to go, I cant envisage the toilets (urinals) being completely desserted even during the game, so I won't be able to use them.

Assuming there are a decent number of cubicles / at least one empty one I will be alright I think.

Re: Wembley toilets?

Posted by Mark on 17/2/2009, 7:53 pm, in reply to "Re: Wembley toilets?"
Message modified by board administrator 17/2/2009, 9:53 pm

Hi Ben,

Iv never been to a football match so cant comment in that matter, but there will be at least 1 cubicle in every WC, so you will be fine. Its not worth worrying about it so just look forward to the game! Dont worry about trying to use a urinal, if you think it will be too much of a challenge then give you self the day off, after all you have plenty of other times to practice!

Mark

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