Posted by Deklan (UK) on 5/1/2012, 1:25 pm

Been Cursed with this problem, unable to pee at the urinals since age 7, now 57. Spent Thousands Of Pounds on CBT and gradual exposure therapy one to one. Hypnotherapy (Tried 3 therapists) And other forms of psychotherapy all to no avail. Got some help but as soon as the therapy is left off and it neverleaves me only about 30% then its all back again. I have found social situtations very anxious and now even going in a public place causes problems. Often Cubicals are unfit for use sometimes I can go there but mostly not, get all worked up and very intense anxiety. The Dr has listened and tried to help but problem still there. Therapists tell me I am OVER SENSITIVE and TOO HIGHLY STRUNG in other otherwords anxiety is out of control. Yes I have tried all sorts of ways to calm myself. I have no social life now at all and now have some prostate problems which makes the condition a lot worse. HAS ANYONE BEEN 100% CURED? If so please get back to me, I am desperate to try ANYTHING that might help. My Dr has suggested EFT, Emotional Freedom Techinque, has anyone tried this? There again like most therapy long term its another moneyspinner,between £45 and £75 per hald hour session, There are workshops two days but its getting there. I have a lot of other health issues and I am no medically retired. I find if I go into a pub or other situtaion a social group its fine for a few days or weeks then, you do get talked about, after all a MAN is designed and expected to naturally be able to use the urinals, or if that is not the case, why are they there?

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